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Flirting or else mutual feelings about a person you feel comfortable with and the way you try to send those messages of attractiveness to the other is what keeps us alive and vivid. Flirting=emotions, games of our brain, contact of our eyes and then a distant kiss... that is how the whole game begins.
     Nowadays, however, flirting does not exist in the way we used to know.. it is all distant contact via the Net and interaction between two people that may even be led to make love without knowing one another. It is really a big stake to try to convince yourself that you must feel something before you meet somebody. ''Cheating'' your brain that way may make you always act the same way thus gradually immobilizing your self confidence and self respect.
    Self-confidence is to promise yourself, no matter how difficult the problem life throws at you, that you will try as hard as you can to help yourself. You acknowledge that sometimes your efforts to help yourself may not result in success, as often being properly rewarded is not in your control. On the other hand, by using the Net so extensively makes you loose this privilege of defense.
    Self-esteem is a term used in psychology to reflect a person's overall evaluation or appraisal of his or her own worth. Using net for flirting may finally lead you inconceivably to problems with this approach making self-esteem contingent upon success: this implies inherent instability because failure can occur at any moment.
    Finally, anti-social measures have to be taken by every each single of us, to obstruct this psychological imposed burden named Net to interfere in our hearts and in games that mother nature has endowed us with...

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